{"id":4009,"date":"2015-02-03T12:02:48","date_gmt":"2015-02-03T05:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/?p=4009"},"modified":"2015-02-03T12:02:48","modified_gmt":"2015-02-03T05:02:48","slug":"today-2-januari-di-bawah-empat-mata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/?p=4009","title":{"rendered":"TODAY, 2 Januari: Di Bawah Empat Mata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1137\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1136\" style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1134\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1133\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Di Bawah Empat Mata<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1139\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1143\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1142\" style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Mungkin ada di antara kita yang suka mencari-cari kesalahan orang lain dan mengungkapkannya di depan umum.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Semakin banyak yang tahu, semakin bagus, biar tidak lagi terulang.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Begitu mungkin pikir kita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Namun, jika kita renungkan kembali, kita pun bisa dan sangat mungkin berbuat salah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Apabila kesalahan kita yang diumbar di depan umum, di hadapan banyak orang, bagaimana perasaan kita?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Dulu, saya pun pernah demikian&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1148\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Namun kemudian menyesal juga, karena emosi- jadinya merusak relasi dengan teman tersebut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Sekarang, saya berusaha sedapat mungkin untuk menegur di bawah empat mata (dalam Alkitab Bahasa Indonesia Sehari-hari disebutkan lakukan diam-diam di antara kalian berdua saja).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Jika memang perlu, lakukanlah secara bijak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1151\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1150\" style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Bisa kirim BBM pribadi, WhatsApp pribadi, email atau\u00a0<i>inbox\u00a0<\/i>di Facebook.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Tidak perlu seluruh dunia tahu lewat group BBM atau wall\/<i>timeline<\/i>\u00a0Facebook yang bersangkutan rasanya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Karena jika pas kita yang salah, akankah kita mau diperlakukan demikian juga?<br \/>\nKebebasan mengemukakan pendapat di era sosial media ini, hendaknya juga diiringi etika dan menjaga perasaan orang lain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1154\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1153\" style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Apa yang tidak kita inginkan orang lain lakukan pada kita, semoga kita pun tidak melakukannya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Berpikir dulu sebelum bertindak, mohon tuntunan Roh Kudus senantiasa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Semoga kita makin bijaksana di dalam Dia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">(-fon-)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1155\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1157\">&#8220;Apabila saudaramu berbuat dosa, tegorlah\u00a0\u00a0dia di bawah empat mata. Jika ia mendengarkan nasihatmu engkau telah mendapatnya kembali.<\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_1_1422939491900_1158\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&#8212; Matius 18:15<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Sumber KatolikIndonesia@yahoogroups.com penulis Fonny Jodikin &lt;fjodikin@gmail.com&gt;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Di Bawah Empat Mata \u00a0 Mungkin ada di antara kita yang suka mencari-cari kesalahan orang lain dan mengungkapkannya di depan umum. Semakin banyak yang tahu, semakin bagus, biar tidak lagi terulang. 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