{"id":12283,"date":"2017-08-06T21:58:21","date_gmt":"2017-08-06T14:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/?p=12283"},"modified":"2017-08-06T21:58:21","modified_gmt":"2017-08-06T14:58:21","slug":"today-5-agustus-belajar-mengendalikan-kemarahan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/?p=12283","title":{"rendered":"TODAY, 5 Agustus: Belajar Mengendalikan Kemarahan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_809\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_812\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><b id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_811\"><u id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_810\">Belajar Mengendalikan Kemarahan<\/u><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_814\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_835\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><b id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_834\"><u id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_833\"><br \/>\n<\/u><\/b><\/span><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_815\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tina, sebut saja demikian namanya, hari itu betul-betul marah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_816\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_817\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Sakit hatinya dipermalukan, dihina, dan dijadikan obyek gosip yang belum tentu kebenarannya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_819\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_818\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tina mengetahui bahkan semua gosip itu adalah salah, namun untuk menjatuhkan dirinya, dia digosipkan demikian.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_826\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_825\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Siapa yang tidak kesal jika berada pada posisi Tina?<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_829\"><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_828\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Siapa yang takkan sesak, jika menjadi korban atas nama kuasa (orang yang menggosipkan itu menginginkan posisi Tina di perusahaan)?<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_830\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_832\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Sakit hati. Marah. Kesal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Semua berpadu jadi satu di dalam hatinya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tangisan memenuhi malam-malamnya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_843\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tanpa mampu lagi dia berkata-kata.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Hati yang hancur dengan mudah menggiring kita memaki, marah-marah tak karuan kepada sekitar, bahkan kepada orang yang tidak salah sekali pun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tidak mudah memang seperti kata kitab Amsal: orang bijaksana dapat menahan kemarahannya.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Butuh kedewasaan dan pengendalian diri dalam tuntunan Roh Kudus untuk bisa melaksanakannya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Dalam kebimbangan dan kehancuran, Tina pun datang kepada Allah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Sujud di dalam doa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Mencoba mengampuni, meskipun sangat tersakiti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tina yakin, Tuhan Maha Melihat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Suatu saat, segala sesuatu akan terbuka.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Terutama jika dia jujur, dia yakin karena hatinya tenang.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Dia tak ingin membalas, karena Tina ingat: pembalasan bukanlah urusan manusia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_844\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_845\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tuhan akan memampukan Tina dan juga setiap kita untuk mengampuni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tak pernah mudah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Tidak segampang teori-teori yang kita baca.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Namun mari berusaha mengendalikan kemarahan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Jangan sampai ia berakibat buruk dan merugikan diri sendiri dan orang-orang terdekat kita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Mari belajar untuk itu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_846\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">(-fon-)\/Fonny Jodikin<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_847\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_848\" style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">Orang bijaksana dapat menahan kemarahannya. Ia terpuji karena tidak menghiraukan kesalahan orang terhadapnya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_15_0_2_1502031369964_849\"><span style=\"font-family: 'georgia','garamond','times new roman','times',serif;\">&#8212; Amsal 19:11 (BIS- Bahasa Indonesia Sehari-hari)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Sumber KatolikIndonesia@yahoogroups.com penulis Fonny Jodikin &lt;fjodikin@gmail.com&gt;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Belajar Mengendalikan Kemarahan Tina, sebut saja demikian namanya, hari itu betul-betul marah. Sakit hatinya dipermalukan, dihina, dan dijadikan obyek gosip yang belum tentu kebenarannya. Tina mengetahui bahkan semua gosip itu adalah salah, namun untuk&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12065,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-referensi"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_2301-01.jpeg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12283","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12283"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12283\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12284,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12283\/revisions\/12284"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12283"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12283"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katolikindonesia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12283"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}